Strengthen Your Relationship - Put Off Sex For a While

By Tina L. Jones


Is it a good idea to put off having sex with a new guy? Does putting off sex help or hurt your chances of taking your relationship to the next level? How long should you wait before having sex with a new partner? Sex is such an important part of a relationship and it's an important decision. There can be many consequences to sleeping with a guy that you have only just met particularly you are attracted to him emotionally and thinking of a long term relationship. Here are some things to keep in mind when deciding how long to wait before having sex.
Over recent years it has become more common for couples to have casual sex and much of the moral stigma about sex outside if marriage no longer exists. Women are a lot more comfortable with expressing their sexuality today. Having more than one partner is now acceptable for women. However that doesn't make it a good idea to sleep with every guy you are attracted to. Unless you are out to enjoy some casual sex with no expectations then you should practice a little restraint about who you sleep with.
One reason for not starting a sexual relationship too soon is that there are some guys who are just out looking to get laid. Once they have had sex they often move on. There are other guys who are might be nice guys, but they are just not ready to settle down to a serious relationship yet. By slowing things down and making a guy wait for sex you will weed out the guys who are not looking for the same thing as you. Waiting for sex also gives you time to get to know each other and develop the non-sexual side of your relationship. Getting to know him better can help you decide if the relationship is worth pursuing.
So some of the things to consider before sleeping with a guy include what your intentions are, how long you've known him and how well you know him. Sex is enjoyable and fun and no one wants you to miss out on it. But if you are after more than casual sex you will increase the chances of having a long term romance if you put off sex for a while and enjoy spending time together first.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website

By Tina L. Jones