By Jason Leading
Your partner is your 'ex' for some real good reasons. You are distraught and are looking for answers, but somehow you can't fathom the underlying causes of the split. Well, look no further, all the answers are within you and if you address them satisfactorily your 'ex' will once again become your lover. Dissect your past. Take break and analyze your behavior. If you have had a domineering trait that you did not check then you need to address this issue immediately. Remember your partner is also your best friends and friends don't like to be dominated. A relationship is successful only when it is between two equals. Get professional help if you need to. This will help you make better person even if you fail to attract your ex back. Eat humble pie. If after seeking professional help and making the necessary changes in your attitude and behavior you still are not able to make a favorable impression on your ex then it means you screwed up real bad. The best thing under these circumstances is to eat humble pie and apologize unconditionally. Call up your ex and express your wish to meet him/her to apologize. This act will not only soothe frayed nerves but will also massage your ex's ego. However, be sincere in your apology and do not expect your ex to come onboard immediately. Transform yourself. Having followed the above mentioned two tips, you need to now devote some time to better yourself. Lose weight if you have grown thick at the waist, wear smart clothes, change your hairstyle, and color your hair.....the works. You should do all that you can to attract members of the opposite sex. You should not only look new on the outside but you should also feel it from within. Once your ex realizes that you have changed for the better it will be only a matter of time before he/she welcomes you back in a relationship.
By Jason Leading
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