By David Leonard Houde
To catch a cheating spouse, you first must know what to look for. Sometimes a cheater will do everything to protect their secret double life. Fortunately, the signs of a cheater are easy to detect and spot. They might think they have the wool over your eyes, but that is far from the truth! Here are some great pointers that can help uncover their love affair.
Your spouse calls you to tell you, yet again, they are staying at work late. This might just be a cover for their secret love affair, and it might be time to bring your poor over-worked spouse a late night snack! They might also have an out of town business trip to take. It might be they leave extra early for work as well. Whatever the case, you probably want to dig deeper.
Changes to appearance can be another sign of a cheating spouse. To gain the affection of a new flame sometimes takes a bit of showing off. If they want to impress this new lover, changing their appearance - clothing, hair style, cologne/perfume - might be in order. Sudden changes usually are the sign of life changes. Find out more about why they suddenly are wearing something, that six months earlier, they would not be caught dead wearing.
Depending on the depth of this new relationship, the intimacy you both have could be very lacking. If sex is the center of the affair, they probably will come up with all sorts of excuses why you two cannot take a "roll in the hay". They will appear distant, there will be less conversation, and they probably will be daydreaming more. Unless you can pin this lack of desire to something specific, it might mean there is more to it.
Are you tired of not knowing what is going on? If you suspect there is something going on, it probably is ripping you apart. You want to be sure though.
By David Leonard Houde
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