5 Tips to Spot a Marriage in Trouble

By Sarah Suton


* You no longer look to appreciate each other. Too much time together can create boredom and if this is something you are conscious of then you need to start to tackle it.
* There is a lack of communication. You or your spouses problems or difficulties seem to mean that the other one is forgotten .One of you might just be misunderstanding perhaps? A simple process here is to talk. Quite simply a situation can be misconstrued. If however you have forgotten to talk to each other then there could be lots of trouble in front of you. You have to learn how to talk about your problems and if you want to save your marriage then this is something you will have to tackle.
* Your spouse doesn't seem to notice you. Do they not appear to be interested in your day? Have they no curiosity whatsoever about what you have been dong with your time? Have they started forgetting about your birthday or your anniversary? Are these not the signs of a marriage in trouble? Do you feel that there is no focus on you now? Shouldn't they still want to do things for you? If you are feeling that your spouse just doesn't see you anymore then perhaps you should start now to resurrect your marriage. If you think this is happening then you need to take action now or it could prove terminal.
* You have stopped having fights. I don't mean the physical type. Having the occasional row can help any relationship. It demonstrates that you can communicate at the basic level perhaps and many marriages have this component. If you have stopped arguing, there can be many different reasons why but if arguments no longer trouble you and you don't engage in them or if they don't happen then it could be the sign of a marriage in trouble. It could indicate that you or your spouse are simply giving up.
* There is no intimacy. This isn't just sexual but can also mean hugging, kissing, the unexpected present, the bunch of flowers or breakfast in bed. It can be a demonstration that something is being lost. If this has started to happen fairly recently then you might find it easily sorted but it could be a factor showing a marriage in trouble.
This is the basic fact. There is still love between you but it does happen, you slowly unravel and suddenly you are left wondering, how did that happen? There are methods which you and your spouse can look at or you can try and save your marriage alone.Whichever way you look at it, if there are signs that are troubling you then you need to get some helpS and start the process to get the marriage back on track.

By Sarah Sutton